Friends In Disguise

“I take pleasure…in the insults…I suffer for Christ.”                         2 Corinthians 12:10 NLT

When you’re insulted, you can retaliate with a stinging comeback or see it as a growth opportunity. David said, “It is good…that I have been afflicted, that I might learn Your statutes” (Psalm 119:71 NKJV).  Psychologist Dr. Brenda Shoshanna says: “The person who insults us is a teacher…come to help us reduce our ego, develop patience and compassion, practice unconditional forgiveness, and teach us about life and relationships.  If you don’t perceive an insult as an insult, but as a teaching or a gift, it loses its power to hurt you.  On a practical level, if you’re insulted, say nothing.  Give yourself time. Much harm is created by lashing back, escalating the situation, and saying things you may not mean.  Recognize it’s your ego–that false sense of pride acting up–and don’t go along with it.”

Paul reached a place where he actually took “pleasure in…insults.”  Most of us aren’t quite there yet, but with time and practice it can happen. Speaking of Judas, one author writes: “God sometimes manipulates the actions of our enemies to make them work as friends in order to accomplish His will in our lives.  He can bless us through the worst relationships, ones that are painful or negative.  The time, effort, and pain we invest in them aren’t wasted because God knows how to make adversity feed destiny into our lives.  We can’t stop hurts from coming, or promise that everyone who sits at our table will be loyal.  But the suffering [we experience] gives us direction and builds character, and in the end we find grace to reevaluate our enemies and realize that like Judas, they are friends in disguise.”

 

This message taken from: Daily Devotional – The Word For You Today